Sunday, January 16, 2011

Reverently, Quietly...

I try to keep our kids reverent - well, at least quiet - during church, so I made a book with different laminated pictures from the LDS distribution center. Abby was looking at it today.


"Here's Jesus talking to Mary after He was resurrected."



"Here's Jesus and the children."



"Oh, and here's the snow white temple!"

Saturday, January 15, 2011

For All You 'Chuck' Fans

On the way to pick up Fred from work

Abby: "Mommy, does Daddy work at the BuyMore?"

Later

Abby: "Mommy, can we go to the BuyMore where Daddy works and get some cheeseballs?"

Even later

Jacob: "Abby, Chuck isn't real, like a cartoon. Only it's for grownups."

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Mikkel Edward Deal - 11 January 1990

Happy birthday to my first-born. Mikkel, you are one of the apples of my eye (I have five others, you know). I remember how badly I wanted you to join our family... until labor really got going and the pain got so bad, I decided I didn't want a baby anymore. Dad kept reminding me how happy I was to have a baby until I finally yelled "Well, I changed my mind!". Then, of course, the epidural kicked in and I remembered that yes, I truly was excited for you to be a part of our lives.

I thought I knew a lot about caring for babies. I was more prepared than your average first-time parent, but no matter how many foster babies we had it was not the same as being the only mom 24/7. I made lots of mistakes and you have definitely been our "guinea pig" child. I'm very impressed how you've survived and sometimes even flourished despite all the things we've had to learn on the job.

I'm so pleased with the man you've become. You're a great example to everyone around you, even to people you don't know. Every chance I get I'm telling anyone who'll listen about your mission and all that's involved. I know you don't think it's a big deal but there really aren't too many people who are willing to take two years away from their lives and dedicate themselves completely to the Lord's work. Even people who are older and have no kids at home, no debt and plenty of time/money have a very hard time making the commitment you've so willingly made.

Being a parent is truly not for wimps... there are times I've felt completely unprepared and the wrong one for this job; but it's all worth it and I wouldn't have it any other way. I love you and can't wait to hold you in my arms again in just 58 more days.

I hope you've had a great birthday and many more to come.

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Abby - "Can I have some of your caffeine?"
AnneMarie - (drinking some coke) "No, it's mine."
Daniel - "IT'S NOT CAFFEINE, ABBY! IT'S SODA!!"
Abby - "AnneMarie, can I have some of your caffeine?"
AnneMarie - "No."
Abby - (Hands on hips and looking very annoyed) "I hate water! I need caffeine!"

Monday, December 27, 2010

Jumping on the Trampoline

Carson, Jacob and Abigail 12/27/10



Daniel 12/27/10

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

And Jack Handey is His Hero...

While trying to organize, I came across a project Mikkel had to do his senior year in high school. He had to talk about his future plans, give himself advice, talk about something he's learned and give advice to freshmen.

Here are some of the things he wrote (this is word for word, without any corrections for grammar or punctuation):

I plan on getting married to the woman I will spend the rest of my life with. This has always been something I have wanted, since before I even liked girls. I knew I would get married to one so it's only natural that I would include one in my future plans.

If I could give advice to any freshman it would be this, STOP MAKING OUT IN FRONT OF THE WORLD!! This really seems to be a problem here, these people seem to kiss more than they do talk to that person. I guess that's all fine and dandy if that's all you want, but please, spare me, leave that sort of stuff to the privacy of your houses, cars or anywhere else that is semi-private. I love my girlfriend and kissing her is never a bad experience but not in public.

Running from your problems does not help at all. It may seem easier to run for now, but sooner or later, you will get tired, and then they will catch right back up, that's when things get bad.

If I could give myself advice five years from now, I would say that while preparing for the future, don't forget to live in the moment sometimes, because in the future, you won't have anything to look back on.


Saturday, December 18, 2010

Abby Lyrics

Frosty the snowman was a happy johnny snow!


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